I am a person who likes to be online when I get time.And I do come across reviews about me,questions about me and some very nice and heartwarming comments by my patients.I would be a liar if I say a good comment doesn't flatter me.It does and motivates me to atleast carry on doing what my patients like about me.
I thought of making an attempt to understand how I am as a doctor and my mindset when I approach my patients as well as other aspects of life.
Let us start with my negative side first
In nutshell if you are a sensible person who is used to respect others and get respect in return most probably I am the doctor for you.If you like to be pampered then I am not the best choice.If you like a doctor who chats to you over mobile I am not the person.But if you are savvy enough to text me or mail me you will find yourself in continous touch with me.
I have tried to give an honest feedback of mine for all those people who keep on posting in various Forums to know the kind of person and doctor I am.
I thought of making an attempt to understand how I am as a doctor and my mindset when I approach my patients as well as other aspects of life.
Let us start with my negative side first
- I am not a die hard professional ready to work 24/7/365
- I take a break from my OPD on Sundays.
- I tell you the truth and only truth about your health and not what you might like to hear
- I do get irritated when someone asks me question again and again when I have already explained it in great detail.I can't mask my face and you can very easily make out when I am irritated.you might then consider me rude.
- I don't prefer to attend phone calls while in OPD,operating and conducting a delivery and if you call I request you to 'text' me please.
- If you are a VIP used to special attention I might not be the correct doctor for you as I don't practice to boost anyone's ego.
- If I am over busy and I think I can be an unsafe doctor I may refuse to take your case.
- I don't believe in marketing gimmiks like discounted fees etc and neither do I like people who complain about my fees(there aren't many who complain though)
- I don't pamper my patients .
- I work hard between Monday to saturday in my OPD and OT
- I am available for an emergency booked under me 24/7/365
- I give you plenty of time when you come for routine consultation to me.Give you lots of evidence based medicine and I am in no rush to get you out of my OPD.
- You are assured of a quality health care whether you are a commoner or a celebrity.
- I follow evidence based protocols and am confident and clear when I am treating you.
- I would not prescribe you any single investigation without an explainable reason and won't send you to any specified Lab /Radiologist unless you ask for one.
- While I don't pamper you ,I am well behaved and I treat you in a textbook manner.
In nutshell if you are a sensible person who is used to respect others and get respect in return most probably I am the doctor for you.If you like to be pampered then I am not the best choice.If you like a doctor who chats to you over mobile I am not the person.But if you are savvy enough to text me or mail me you will find yourself in continous touch with me.
I have tried to give an honest feedback of mine for all those people who keep on posting in various Forums to know the kind of person and doctor I am.
12 comments:
Thanks Dr. Dwivedee for a frank and honest "heads up". It's really heartening to know there is a tech savvy doctor out there. Me and my wife are planning to visit you at Max today.
Saif n Sam
SeaetreWe came across Dr. Kaushiki Dwivedee's profile from the internet, while searching for a good doctor(obstetrician cum gynecologist) in Gurgaon. And good she definitely is. She far exceeded our expectation from her- has loads of time for her patients, is very patient, explains everything wonderfully, gets you prepared for what lies ahead in your pregnancy, is in tune with the latest developments in the medical field, and has an amazing air of calmness around her! Mind you, we did consult a few gynecologists in the initial stages of pregnancy, but after a few visits to her, finally decided that we should stick to Dr. Dwivedee. Some of the very positive points she has are:
1) She explains the facts to you in details and answers all your queries to your heart's satisfaction. In fact, she has this self-compiled dossier (in the form of an FAQ) that literally answers every question that you might have at different stages in your pregnancy. That dossier itself is worth its weight in gold!
2) You can be confident that she is very much updated with the latest developments in the medical field (vaccinations, ultrasound analysis etc.). We had a few scares from some of our u/s reports, but after meeting her, she allayed our fears to a great extent.
3) She does not ask you to go for unnecessary ultrasounds/tests- only the ones that is really needed for you
4) She has NO tie-ups with any Ultrasound clinics/Labs etc. Infact, I did sms her once asking her where we should do the ultrasounds, and whether we should do it in Max (that is where she sits for her OPDs). She replied back saying it doesn't matter where you do it! She even refused to recommend a stem-cell company for us. She simply said that we should do our own research and opt for the one that we feel is the best and cost-effective (after going through their respective presentations). :-)
5) She is a busy doc, but she has ALWAYS been available for us. She is literally one sms/call away. In the final delivery, she was there during the actual delivery process. What's more- she was the one who actually did the delivery. She assured us that she would do the delivery, and sure enough, she stayed true to her commitment!
7) Last, but not the least, she is highly highly recommended for normal delivery. Amongst my circle of friends, I am probably the only one whose baby had a normal delivery- all thanks to Dr. Dwivedee.... You can be assured that under her, if you do go for a C-sec, it would actually be a genuine C-sec case.
And yes, this review would not have changed one bit even if we had a baby through C-sec... Dr. Kaushikee Dwivedee is confidence-inspiring, highly ethical and a gynecologist par excellence
We came across Dr. Kaushiki Dwivedee's profile from the internet, while searching for a good doctor(obstetrician cum gynecologist) in Gurgaon. And good she definitely is. She far exceeded our expectation from her- has loads of time for her patients, is very patient, explains everything wonderfully, gets you prepared for what lies ahead in your pregnancy, is in tune with the latest developments in the medical field, and has an amazing air of calmness around her! Mind you, we did consult a few gynecologists in the initial stages of pregnancy, but after a few visits to her, finally decided that we should stick to Dr. Dwivedee. Some of the very positive points she has are:
1) She explains the facts to you in details and answers all your queries to your heart's satisfaction. In fact, she has this self-compiled dossier (in the form of an FAQ) that literally answers every question that you might have at different stages in your pregnancy. That dossier itself is worth its weight in gold!
2) You can be confident that she is very much updated with the latest developments in the medical field (vaccinations, ultrasound analysis etc.). We had a few scares from some of our u/s reports, but after meeting her, she allayed our fears to a great extent.
3) She does not ask you to go for unnecessary ultrasounds/tests- only the ones that is really needed for you
4) She has NO tie-ups with any Ultrasound clinics/Labs etc. Infact, I did sms her once asking her where we should do the ultrasounds, and whether we should do it in Max (that is where she sits for her OPDs). She replied back saying it doesn't matter where you do it! She even refused to recommend a stem-cell company for us. She simply said that we should do our own research and opt for the one that we feel is the best and cost-effective (after going through their respective presentations). :-)
5) She is a busy doc, but she has ALWAYS been available for us. She is literally one sms/call away. In the final delivery, she was there during the actual delivery process. What's more- she was the one who actually did the delivery. She assured us that she would do the delivery, and sure enough, she stayed true to her commitment!
7) Last, but not the least, she is highly highly recommended for normal delivery. Amongst my circle of friends, I am probably the only one whose baby had a normal delivery- all thanks to Dr. Dwivedee.... You can be assured that under her, if you do go for a C-sec, it would actually be a genuine C-sec case.
And yes, this review would not have changed one bit even if we had a baby through C-sec... Dr. Kaushikee Dwivedee is confidence-inspiring, highly ethical and a gynecologist par excellence
Thanks a lot for all your kind words.......It is so very humbling.Wishing all the beat to both of you and your baby :-)
All I can say is Dr Dwivedee is a star. She is one of the most professional and tech Savvy (with all these blogs and social networking )doc I have come across who has insight of all the latest development in her field. So what made me a die hard fan of Dr kaushiki. Let me quote several instances:
Instance 1- I delivered my son in december 2012 via a C-section in Max Gurgaon . All went well , but the doctors never knew if there was some other problem even after conducting teh C-section. In 2010 I got severe pain in my lower abs and that was the first time when I met Dr Kaushiki. I had to be admitted and She found out that I had two uterus , one of which was non functional and closed as well one of the kidny was not there . Doctor Kaushiki did a corrective Surgery and got me a bit Normal :)
Instance 2- My sister in law has two miscarraiges before and when she concieved for the third time , all the doctors in Bangalore ( manipal Hospital etc) told her that the pregnancy cannot be carried forward as there were several complications( Placenta uprooted, baby had some congenital defects .. etc..etc.). My sister in law was in a panic mode after visiting several Gynaes and radiologists. Finally I asked her to come over to Delhi under Dr. kaushiki's care. I need to add that a very senior radiologist in AIIMS as well confirmed that the pregnancy cannot continue. Finally Dr Kaushiki took the matters in herr hand and tried some trial drugs with my sis-in- laws consent. She made the couple who had lost all hope to believe in her and God and carry on teh pregnancy. She was monitored weekly . And I must say that the trial drug worked wonders and my Sis in law gave birth to a baby boy on 24th March.
Instance 3- In progress...
Dr Kaushiki has an immense positive attitude and she does not get tired to explain whatever is being asked by the patients .
I would say that she has become my refferal doctors for all complex cases as well as "The Doc" for my family.
Thanks Mrs Pandey :-)
Hi ma'am,
My pregnancy is of 27 weeks and I was not feeling fetal movement. However the ultrasound showed remarkable fetal movement but I was not feeling them. Along with ultrasound, pulse doppler test was done which resulted a slight increase in right and left uterine artery ratio. My doctor has advised to take aspirin for 5 weeks as issue with my blood vessels.
Please advise is it safe to take aspirin during this time for 5 weeks.
Hi all,
I became a dad on 1st Dec 2013 to a lovely girl child… Thanks to Dr Kaushiki, both mom and baby are doing well….. Let me rewind 9 months ….
This was the first time we attempted and also conceived, we would be first time parents…. We didn’t know ABC of handling pregnancy… Like most people I started searching the internet on who is the best doctor etc… I must say that I too believed that any doc who can perform a normal delivery is a better doc… let me say that’s not true ( btw Dr Kaushiki helped us delivery via Vag Delivery ! ) .. There are many reasons for which many doctors perform a C-sec , most of the times the reason can be the money involved for the institution where they are employed… I understand that .. most big hospitals are run like corporations with strict P/L statements driving the underlying behavior, I don’t think its completely wrong way of functioning after all its not like they are running a charity. Everything comes at a cost …
As I said at the beginning I didn’t know much .. I think most people think this way that a doc is good if its vag delivery and a cheat if it’s a C-Sec ….. I read up lot of reviews ( women ) talking good about Dr Kaushiki, I did more research online….. and decided to make Dr Kaushiki my doc for my first baby… my wife didn’t have any opinion on this.. she had left the decision upto me… I learned of the pros and cons of C sec v/s Normal Delivery … … but my take was always… that “Doc !! Pls do what is best for the child/mother given the situation at hand “, it doesn’t matter if it’s a normal delivery or a c-sec. But since I read that Dr Kaushiki has a high rate of normal deliveries I approached her as my best case scenario. Its absurd to demand a normal delivery at any stage of the pregnancy and especially at the beginning, there are a million changes that are going to happen before you reach week 40 how can any one or any doc gurantee you that it will be a normal delivery ?
My first day at her clinic, she opened a big folder with lot of paper in it….. and I was like what is this… that big folder had “My Pregnancy Book” written on it…LifeCell had apparently created the binder .. which later changed to Cordlife… but that’s fine everyone does their branding… and Dr Kaushiki never recommended me that I should go with this cordbank or the other…( that’s what I love about her, she doesn’t dole out unnecessary suggestions which may potentially make you think she has vested interest in those deals )
I liked it , Dr Kaushiki meticulously recorded each and every thing which was required to create a background of the pregnancy and try to zero in if it’s a high risk or low risk pregnancy…. In that first meeting I would say she came across a bit cold / professional ( may be she was not having a great day or I was expecting some one very jovial or happy or equally excited as we were that hurray we will be parents ) but then it was the first meeting… and I would say its not a small fee to see Dr Kaushiki , it was 800 Rs then ( Apr 2013) for those 15 minutes..
The reason I approached Dr Kaushiki ( which I later also told Dr Kaushiki herself ) is I feel that she has “arrived” in her life… now I know all of us have different versions of being “arrived” and may be Dr Kaushiki has not yet “arrived” in her professional life.. and she may have many more personal milestones but I strongly felt that she would just not do a C-Sec to make dirty money for the hospital she may be working for… as at this point of her career she would definitely give much more importance to the quality of her practice and her Name than to some cheap money made by performing unnecessary operations……
Also Dr Kaushiki has vast experience of workin in NHS in UK, you should read up a bit if you are not aware of the healthcare system in the western world, I lived in US for few years and I often saw comparisons drawn up between the US and UK healthcare system. Working at NHS means that the focus is on the outcome and the compensation of the doctor will not change if it’s a csec or normal delivery, doctors get trained and habituated to do what is in the best interest of the mother/baby. So as Dr Kaushiki also shared I guess that has ingrained in her way of working as those might be her formative years…. So Patient first comes naturally to her.. and because of that attitude fame/money automatically follows… so that’s another plus for Dr Kaushiki.
When I reached home after that first visit I poured over the entire book she had prepared… there are some 250 plus questions she has answered… more importantly I liked the two page basic description of her practice at the beginning was something which made me believe I did the right thing by going to this doc…. In brief she said…..
- My way of working will be based on scientific evidence
- I will not recommend any ultrasound clinic or any other test/clinic
- I will not pamper you
- I am not always reachable on phone, you may have to sms and wait for response or email me
- Be prepared to be late while sitting out in the waiting room for your appointments, because If my patients ask questions I answer them and it may take 15 min to 1 hour.. you will have to be patient.
- With all this said if you want to be my patient , then welcome lets start this journey.
These two pages sold me…. But I would not say that all this came our very professional and a bit cold but then again I consoled myself that its ok, atleast I am getting a honest doc who talks straight and calls it as it is…
In the age of internet every adult who can search in google thinks of himself as an expert…. This is a big mistake… what I have learnt is that google will give you what you are looking for…. It will corroborate your original belief.. for example if you type “Is Dr kaushiki bad”, it will give you results corresponding to your search and if you type “is Dr kaushiki good” you will get those good results…. Same goes for when you try to find out any specific things about pregnancy… Understand and accept the fact that if you are not a doctor you are not going to become one in 9 months and don’t even try to become one for that matter… dr kaushiki understands that we have lot of questions and hence she has put out answers to so many popular questions which would be parents have… I would say if you do want to learn , go to babycenter.com a trusted resource which will have researched material.. or the other best option ask your doctor.. email her if it’s a long question or set of questions..
Dr Kaushiki has a plan and she sticks to it…. I think she works in a venn diagram mode which is very good… in the beginning itself she made it clear on when and why would she need ultrasound reports .. earlier I was skeptical of too many ultrasounds but that was one of my mistakes.. ultrasound is completely safe get it done as many times your doctor asks …
Our pregnancy continued uneventful for most of the period, my wife stuck to the diet prescribed and did what ever was asked of her… all the meetings with Dr Kaushiki were brief and to the point not one meeting going over 15 mins.. we usually had our questions before hand and she always answered them promptly. I must say she didn’t recommend a ultrasonologist until we really forced her and that too she gave multiple options.. but were ok, we just wanted to go to Ultrasonologist whos work Dr Kaushiki was familiar with as this aspect is very critical, Your doctors decisions depend on the progress shown by the ultrasound reports…
During this time upto 34 weeks I never went for a second opinion or to another doctor… I am of the opinion that unless you really don’t trust your doctor, why go for a second opinion , this is not a movie you are going to watch over weekend.. say your second doctor says something completely opposite to your first doctor what would you do… whose opinion you would take.. would you take the opinion which you like ? does that mean your medical condition is being treated on what you “like” are you a doctor .. or are you a qualified person to even judge what is good for you and what is not ? Hence I would say try to put lot of thought in picking a doctor, then trusting them… otherwise you would keep on taking multiple second opinions…
I also used to keep going back to Dr Kaushikis blog, even though she is a proponent of Vag delivery , she says on the table its mostly the mother who asks for a C-Sec as these days women cannot / do not want to go through the actual pains of delivering normally , that was a revelation and I concur with that fact, some of my friends told me that doing a C-Sec was their wives first and only choice… so don’t go and paint all doctors in the same color, if some of them are doing C-Sec , they may be requested by the parents themselves… In one instance infact on the same day when my wife was to deliver I saw a would be father and his mother seeing off the would be mother into OT and the father shouting from behind 10:20 AM se pehle karna . 10:20 AM se pehle karna… ( Deliver before 10:20 AM ), so there you go another reason to have CSec so you can have the perfect kid based on planetary positions , its not the doctors fault if they do CSec ….
Our case was getting complicated as it neared its term… Dr Kaushiki asked us to take a call on a matter and also gave her opinion on it…. at this point I took second opinion ( which I didn’t want to but was forced to ) those second opinions were not good at all in the sense of the clarity of thought… they just said continue as it is…. ? but why ? what are the repercussions to continue or induce labour, and all of them said it will be a CSec, which was not a concern to me as what I read up on the subject at times the baby is not strong enough to take the strain of a Vag Delivery and the doctor may take a call to do a CSec to protect the baby…. On this too Dr Kaushiki didn’t say that it will be normal delivery or a Csec, which was fair, I again iterated to Dr Kaushiki that the reason I came to her was that she will do the right thing , so I was convinced that if it has to be a Csec there will be good grounds for it.. and in the end Dr Kaushiki told me that don’t worry if anywhere in the world your baby can be delivered normally it will be delivered here… I went with Dr Kaushikis opinion and moved my wife to the hospital…within 18 hours Dr Kaushiki helped us deliver the kid normally … it was just excellent… there was so much support in the labor room , everything went like clock work…. It was just another day for Dr Kaushiki in office but life changing event for us….
I am so proud , not just because Dr Kaushiki took care of us during the 9 months , not just because her advice was based on scientific evidence, not just because she helped us Vag Deliver the baby.. but because she definitely upheld my belief in doctors that not all doctors are alike…. And some of them are honest….
Max Hospitals – if you are reading this.. feel lucky and be proud that you have Dr Kaushiki working for you.. kindly don’t put any kind of “assurance” schemes on Dr Kaushiki and let her be… she is the queen of your chess board and a queen works best when she is allowed the freedom to move anywhere anytime…. Please note she is one of those doctors which brings credibility and good will to your institution. If I were you , I would have held biweekly calls with Dr Kaushiki just to know if there is something that Max Administration can do for her to help her see patients , deliver babies better.
Other Gyne Doctors – When I took second opinion, I spoke on phone with few of them, I must say no matter how good a doctor you are , but when you ask my Gyne’s name and then smile/laugh first and then talk.. you have already lost me… Please be professional and respect your peers, even if you don’t have a high opinion of any doctor kindly don’t let that be known in no uncertain matter to your patients, the patients anyways are under lot of stress, you smiling laughing and doing a “know all” attitude and making the patient feel that they are in wrong hands is not winning you any brownie points…. Its then I realized that the curt behavior of Dr Kaushiki is better where only professional inputs are given to qualified questions… no drama.
Most importantly please try to have an honest practice like Dr Kaushiki has, even Sachin Tendulkar has said in his farewell speech "Fame and Fortune will automatically come to you if you pursue Excellence" , and try to be humble, you will get more respect.
Dr Kaushiki – cannot thank you enough for you are reinstalling the belief patients carry in doctors, which is being steadily eroded by some doctors by not being honest … also you have a great smile, flash it often… I know you don’t want to pamper the would be mother , but a reassuring smile always works
A Few things I learnt from my experience…..
- Try to get a doctor who works close to your home/office , it will convenient esp In the later months as last thing you want is to deal with traffic while commuting to then frequent trips to ultrasound clinics and doctor visits.
- Put a seat belt on your pregnant wife no matter how slow the car is going.
- Massage your wifes feet every alternate day in upward motion , it will relieve her off the swelling and pain.
- Would be mothers – all through the pregnancy keep massaging olive oil or any other good massage oil all over your belly and back area if you want to minimize the damage done by stretch marks.
- Would be mothers – don’t skip any meal, most of you have smart phones, make an account in caloriecount.com and ensure you eat right… you don’t have to eat fatty stuff but just eat enough quality stuff.
- Read up and follow babycenter.com , the smart phone app version of the website is very nice, it only brings up those things ( changes in your body ) which come at the right time ( week wise ) so you are aware of what is happening with your body and you will not panic or worry.
- Get a juicer / blender and whip up fresh juices off mausmi etc , avoid canned food/juices.
- Avoid Cut fruits at any cost… ie don’t cut an apple and keep in refrigerator.. consume the food immediately.
- Do go for cordblood banking, which company , I will leave it upto you.. but do go for it, its not costly and it’s the only opportunity to save the cord blood and cord tissue , once in a life opportunity it will never come back, and who knows in next 20 years how much would science progress, god forbid should you never need to use it , but its like an insurance. Companys have EMI options and as little as 2500 rs per month for 2 years you can get this service done.
- Try to get a Ultrasonologist who your doctor trusts…. Believe me there is +-15% variation in every reading they give.
- If you are a smart phone user, keep a todo app handy, I regularly use Wunderlist app on iphone and I used to jot down any doubt / question that I may have for the doctor , I used to bring up the list of questions when I used to visit my doc. Make your appointments count and try to get your questions doubts answered….
- Its very important that you trust your doctor, if you don’t trust your doctor and feel he/she is inept or taking you for a ride , leave immediately , you are wasting your and the doctors time.
- Having a single or double loose loops around the babys neck is not the qualifying condition to do a C-Sec, if your doctor is saying that’s the case then do take a second opinion. Its time that patients are not scared into CSec by doctors..
- (For Guys) Leave the decision of Csec or Vag Delivery to your doctor and your wife.. don’t force your opinion on what is right or wrong.. you are not the one who is going to deliver and you cannot even imagine the pain a woman goes through. Also understand there may be many situations where a CSec is better for your wife and baby than a normal delivery, like I said since you and I are not doctors , find a good doc and trust her.
- Be patient while waiting in the waiting room for the doc, because if you are not patient or irritated that its taking so long to see the doc, one you are going in with a bad mood to see the doctor, two you are taking unnecessary stress. Please understand if a couple is taking time, it must be important , you could be that couple..
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