My dad is no more ,but time and again incidents take place and remind me of the words,phrases,couplets,poems or a piece of song which was so very relevent to life.One of his favourites was lines of a song sung by Kishore Kumar
jo tum hasoge to duniya hasegi rovoge tum to na royegi duniya na royegi duniya, tere aansuo ko samjh na sakegi tere aansuo pe hansegi ye duniya hansegi
Do you relate with it???
We all work very hard......very very hard.Even I do.You work hard because that is your job.But then you work hard also because you wish to do justice to your job.And then comes a point when you realise that your Machinery needs a break.Your body cries.....give me a break to work further or I will crash.Same happens with me.I work for months and months,almost 15 to 16 hours a day.And then my mind and body needs some break.And then as you are working there is a time when you feel unwell yourself,,,,,physically.mentally or emotionally.But then who cares....... jo tum hasoge to duniya hasegi rovoge tum to na royegi duniya na royegi duniya, tere aansuo ko samjh na sakegi tere aansuo pe hansegi ye duniya hansegi
Why am I writing all this?
Recently I was on vacation for a week.......yes just a week after 6 months of hard work and as soon as I returned someone very dear passed away at a very young age.( That deserves a separate post).So what happened......I got mail at my personal email id from one Mr XYZ,who was sending his wives reports to me.And despite an autoreply that I am out of country and to contact my fellow team mate Dr Deepa Maheshwari he choose to wait for me.Such an honour for me and I am touched.But I forgot to check his mail.Assumed he has contacted Dr Maheshwari.And then that gentle men sent me another mail the next day of this death and again I missed his mail as luck would have been.Surprising......as rest of the mails were answered.So what do I get as a mail yesterday........I AM DISAPPOINTED.YOU COULD HAVE BEEN MORE COMMITTED :-) Yes I should have been more committed even if my body cried for rest or if a dear one had passed away.That is my Problem after all.
jo tum hasoge to duniya hasegi rovoge tum to na royegi duniya na royegi duniya, tere aansuo ko samjh na sakegi tere aansuo pe hansegi ye duniya hansegi (QED)
jo tum hasoge to duniya hasegi rovoge tum to na royegi duniya na royegi duniya, tere aansuo ko samjh na sakegi tere aansuo pe hansegi ye duniya hansegi
Do you relate with it???
We all work very hard......very very hard.Even I do.You work hard because that is your job.But then you work hard also because you wish to do justice to your job.And then comes a point when you realise that your Machinery needs a break.Your body cries.....give me a break to work further or I will crash.Same happens with me.I work for months and months,almost 15 to 16 hours a day.And then my mind and body needs some break.And then as you are working there is a time when you feel unwell yourself,,,,,physically.mentally or emotionally.But then who cares....... jo tum hasoge to duniya hasegi rovoge tum to na royegi duniya na royegi duniya, tere aansuo ko samjh na sakegi tere aansuo pe hansegi ye duniya hansegi
Why am I writing all this?
Recently I was on vacation for a week.......yes just a week after 6 months of hard work and as soon as I returned someone very dear passed away at a very young age.( That deserves a separate post).So what happened......I got mail at my personal email id from one Mr XYZ,who was sending his wives reports to me.And despite an autoreply that I am out of country and to contact my fellow team mate Dr Deepa Maheshwari he choose to wait for me.Such an honour for me and I am touched.But I forgot to check his mail.Assumed he has contacted Dr Maheshwari.And then that gentle men sent me another mail the next day of this death and again I missed his mail as luck would have been.Surprising......as rest of the mails were answered.So what do I get as a mail yesterday........I AM DISAPPOINTED.YOU COULD HAVE BEEN MORE COMMITTED :-) Yes I should have been more committed even if my body cried for rest or if a dear one had passed away.That is my Problem after all.
jo tum hasoge to duniya hasegi rovoge tum to na royegi duniya na royegi duniya, tere aansuo ko samjh na sakegi tere aansuo pe hansegi ye duniya hansegi (QED)
2 comments:
this is so very true. in the fast paced world that we have come to live in , theres little patience left in all of us to respect and feel for the other person. the result is that without knowing the context , we selfishly pursue our own motives with little regard for the situation that other person might be facing. work gets done and we move on while giving little thought to the fact that it killed a part of that relationship with every such transaction. dont think all of us can empathize leave alone attempting to empathize. guess its an innate talent.
Beautifully put.Yes it does kill a part of relationship !! No one has the time.....
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